the pain of losing then will there be the time for cherishing. how much would you go, how much would you sacrifice for love? there's a story, once upon a time, there's 3 man, named love, regret and cherish. the three of them cant live together, due to clashes in ideology. in other words, they cant co-exist with each other. they fight for status, and fight for a place in your life. there comes love and left, and only when regret enters your life, then will you know how to cherish. why must all man learn to cherish, only when they lose something precious? so exactly how many people had regretted and cherished? well i guess, its only the minority. the majority of people take things for granted. they think that they deserved it, or rather, things should be like that. i am your boyfriend, so you should listen to me. i am the man, so you should follow suit. i am your boyfriend, so i should treat you the way i want. do they really stop and think, even if it is a second, the things their girlfriends had done? be it small actions in everyday lives, but still, it means alot. girls, their boyfriends stand everything. they asked, get their opinion, before deciding something. guys? their girlfriends are just someone. they seldom asked, seldom get their opinion, before deciding everything. friends, fun, soccer, basketball etc. they just go. why is there the invention of a clock, when no one is actually appreciating it? there ought to be people who are always late, who are always forgetting the time, who never bother to check the time, who played like nobody's business till night falls. time never waits. stop and think people, is there someone like that in your life? i bet there is. i guess everyone, in their heart, zhi xiang hao hao ai yi ge ren.